Mother, it’s not a simple word which can be easily explained. It’s an emotion which is tied with us irrespective of your conscious. Why am saying this because any other emotions you can control but when it is coming for mom, without knowing yourself, the emotions will get out.  So, you are not separate from your mom but you are just a part of your mother.

All these feelings did not come when I am with my mother.  

In childhood, I used to be there with her always, I cried, shouted, begged for the things which I cannot get at those time but she said because it’s not good for us that we won’t realize until we grown up.

In college days also, I never stayed in home more. I am always with my friends in college or in their house or most of the times will be away from my home and I just go home for sleep. That time also I never felt that I am far away from my mother because I used to meet and talk at least once in a day.

After I finished the college, came to job with the excitement. New place, new friends, new day to day life. So, life went well. Face to face conversations changed to daily phone calls. Even I did not feel anything like am missing my mom.

The first time I felt that am not with my mom is that I got fever in one of the working day. Even though my friends took care me like anything but they had to go for job. We were staying in the hostel, I felt like having a hot water but very tired to get up from the bed even. That’s the first time I missed my mom that the same case if I was in my home, no need to think even, she will give the water at the respective time. She is the one first to get notified when we want something before even we tell.

Again, days are going good and you will not feel missing your mother but every day while you have hostel food, definitely you will miss your mom. That’s for sure. So, whenever you feel missing, just make a call and speak to your mom.

Whether you miss your mom in happy moments or not but definitely you will miss in your sad and hard or when you suffer. You will miss the sleep in your mother’s lap and her hand in your head. That’s the best relaxation technique till now I had ever.  I miss always those things when I had hard day in my office or my life.

I can’t even explain how she can is so selfless, I visited her when she was ill from all along the way from workplace to hometown. I told her that putting leave is not possible, so that I will come next weekend again. She told to dad that asked me not to come next weekend because I will get tired for travelling for the whole distance, so come after two weekends. I cannot even imagine, how come she can think about my health when she is ill to the core. There are no words to explain her love.

I traveled 1000 kms in one day with lack of sleep, food but that one smile of my mom when she see me, that’s made me forget everything. For that smile, I can travel any amount of distance to meet her.

Love you mom forever…!

Missing your mom is horrible but don’t express to her because she will also feel thrice than yours.

And never show your angry to her because she can’t handle your angry in her heart. For you, it’s just the words but for her it’s like arrow to her heart.

I dedicated this to all mothers in the world. Happy Mother’s Day…!

Lovingly,

Purush